Love and Truth
Postulation:
Love and truth go hand in hand, they are two sides of the same coin,
and together they are the strongest healing force that you have.
This is something you can experience very clearly if and when you go into a deep personal crisis.
Such a crisis is typically brought on by a combination of denial, delusions and lies.
As long as you keep suppressing the truth, you are also suppressing love.
The pain will just keep growing and you will sink deeper and deeper into the crisis.
Denial, delusions and lies cannot stand on their own, they have to be actively maintained.
Your self-deception is constantly costing you energy.
At the deepest point of your crisis you may have so little energy left that you have to make a choice:
Will you choose to use your last energy to maintain your lies, or will you choose to live?
How painful does it have to become before you can turn?
As soon as you choose to stop suppressing the truth, you also stop suppressing love, and your
healing process can begin. Confessions will seem to stand in line. Lies will rise to the surface
and start popping like soap bubbles. You grow stronger for each revelation.
You can choose truth/love at any time, long before your delusions become life threatening.
You will come out of your personal crisis much stronger than when you went in, as you are
no longer burdened by so many lies.
Culture has probably taught you to see love and truth as separate things, but having managed
to heal yourself out of a crisis, you have experienced how closely they are connected.
Coming out of a deep crisis the term “personal truth” can sound very hollow,
while the term “absolute truth” has become more meaningful.
You have absolute truth to the same degree that you have unconditional love and vice versa.
Seeing them together they become more attainable.
Aim high and be patient with yourself!
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